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Why bisexual visibility feels impossible in straight relationships

I've been with my boyfriend for three years but I still feel like a fraud when I go to Pride because people assume I'm straight.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The invisibility of your identity within a relationship structure creates a persistent sense of erasure and illegitimacy.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

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