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When adoptive parents frame rescue as charity

My adoptive parents told me I should be grateful they saved me from poverty but I found out they received monthly payments for years and now I don't know what to feel.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The collision between gratitude narratives and financial realities exposes the commodification hidden within adoption's moral framing.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Adopted identity — chosen and given?”

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