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Scenario

How to support family without losing yourself

My adult daughter wants me to babysit my grandchildren for free every weekend so she can work a second job but I also need rest and time for myself and feel selfish for wanting boundaries.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The expectation of unlimited family support collides with the need for personal boundaries in ways that make self-care feel like selfishness.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Rights — their origin and their limits?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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