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Scenario

When your growth doesn't guarantee reconciliation

My adult daughter won't let me see my grandchildren because of how I treated her growing up, and I've been in therapy trying to change but she says it's too late and I need to respect her boundaries.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Someone confronts the reality that personal transformation doesn't entitle them to forgiveness or restored relationships.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ubuntu justice — healing over punishment?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.