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When relationship patterns become identity crutches

My adult son asked me to stop giving advice and I realized that telling people what to do is the only way I know how to show love.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Long-standing relational dynamics can become so central to identity that changing them feels like self-erasure.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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