My best friend since childhood started dating someone who looks exactly like me and now I'm wondering if our whole friendship was based on some weird racial fetish I never noticed.
More people experience this than they realize.
The discovery of patterns in someone's intimate choices can retroactively contaminate relationships that felt genuine and uncomplicated.
“Where Are You with Mixed-race identity and belonging?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.