My brother borrowed my car and totaled it while drunk and my family keeps saying I should forgive him because he's struggling but I can't afford another car and I'm furious.
More people experience this than they realize.
The pressure to choose between compassion and boundaries creates a false binary that ignores how true repair requires both accountability and understanding.
“Where Are You with Punitive vs. restorative approaches to harm?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.