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When family secrets protect dysfunction

My brother has been stealing from our family business for years and my parents know but won't confront him because they're afraid he'll cut off contact with his grandchildren.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Everyone's agreement to avoid difficult truth is enabling harm and making you complicit in destruction you didn't choose.

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