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How to maintain boundaries with struggling extended family

My brother-in-law keeps asking me for money and my sister gets mad when I say no but I worked hard for financial stability.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your success is generating expectations for resource sharing that threaten your own security and create family conflict.

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