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Scenario

When sobriety changes sibling relationships permanently

My brother keeps asking me to be his drinking buddy like we used to be and I miss that closeness but I cannot go back there.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Recovery can require sacrificing forms of intimacy that were built around shared destructive behavior.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Recovery identity — from addiction?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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