My disabled sister needs constant care and I feel guilty that I got the genetic lottery while she didn't, but I also resent how much of our family resources go to her.
More people experience this than they realize.
The arbitrary nature of physical and cognitive differences within families creates complex feelings about fairness, responsibility, and resentment.
“Where Are You with Privilege and its acknowledgment?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.