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When family loyalty conflicts with your values

My elderly father keeps making racist comments around my mixed-race children and I've been staying quiet to keep the peace but I think my silence is teaching them the wrong thing.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

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You're realizing that protecting your children's dignity might require confronting the person who gave you yours.

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