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When family elders hold views that clash with your values

My elderly father keeps making racist comments at family dinners and everyone just sits there silent, but I cannot stand it anymore and don't know if confronting him will destroy our family.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

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You're torn between filial respect and moral courage when loved ones perpetuate harm.

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