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Scenario

When exes weaponize your sexual identity

My ex-boyfriend told everyone that I 'turned bi' after we broke up and now people think my identity is just revenge against men.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Having your authentic self-discovery reframed as reaction or revenge diminishes your agency and reduces your truth to a response to someone else.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.