My ex-boyfriend told everyone that I 'turned bi' after we broke up and now people think my identity is just revenge against men.
More people experience this than they realize.
Having your authentic self-discovery reframed as reaction or revenge diminishes your agency and reduces your truth to a response to someone else.
“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.