My ex-boyfriend's family loved me but I overheard his mom tell someone I was 'one of the good ones' because I'm light-skinned, and now I question if anyone loves the real me.
More people experience this than they realize.
Being accepted by others' families due to colorist preferences can create doubt about whether relationships are based on genuine connection.
“Where Are You with Colorism and intraracial identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.