Periagoge
Scenario

When you want your abuser to heal instead of just disappear

My ex-partner emotionally abused me for years and everyone says I should just 'move on' but I keep wondering if there's a way for them to actually understand what they did and change.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A survivor wrestles with the tension between self-protection and hope for their harmer's transformation.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ubuntu justice — healing over punishment?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.