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When you want your abuser to heal instead of just disappear

My ex-partner emotionally abused me for years and everyone says I should just 'move on' but I keep wondering if there's a way for them to actually understand what they did and change.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A survivor wrestles with the tension between self-protection and hope for their harmer's transformation.

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