My ex-wife is badmouthing me to our kids after our divorce and my lawyer says I can take her to court but I'm worried that fighting about it will hurt the kids more.
More people experience this than they realize.
The ripple effects of seeking justice can create new injuries for innocent parties, forcing a calculation between personal vindication and collective wellbeing.
“Where Are You with Punitive vs. restorative approaches to harm?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.