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Scenario

When dying abusers seek reconciliation on their timeline

My father sexually abused me as a child and now he's dying and wants to reconcile, and I feel pressure from family to forgive him but I don't know if I can or should.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A survivor faces external pressure to prioritize their abuser's spiritual needs over their own healing process.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ubuntu justice — healing over punishment?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.