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When dying abusers seek reconciliation on their timeline

My father sexually abused me as a child and now he's dying and wants to reconcile, and I feel pressure from family to forgive him but I don't know if I can or should.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A survivor faces external pressure to prioritize their abuser's spiritual needs over their own healing process.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ubuntu justice — healing over punishment?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.