My girlfriend broke up with me because she said I am not gay enough since I have dated men before and still find some attractive.
More people experience this than they realize.
Belonging in marginalized communities sometimes requires performing purity that denies the complexity of human experience.
“Where Are You with Gay and lesbian identity across cultures?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.