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How to navigate labels when your partner transitions

My girlfriend came out as non-binary and I realized that my attraction to them doesn't change, but now I don't know if I should still call myself bisexual or pansexual.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

When someone you love evolves, it can illuminate new truths about yourself while destabilizing familiar categories of identity.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.