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Scenario

When partners claim acceptance but show discomfort

My girlfriend says she's fine with me being bi but gets visibly uncomfortable whenever I mention finding a male celebrity attractive.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Performative acceptance that crumbles under real-world tests creates a more insidious form of rejection than outright hostility.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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