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Scenario

How to navigate partner's family expectations

My girlfriend's parents invited me to dinner but I don't know if I should present more traditionally masculine or just be myself and risk them rejecting her choice.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Romantic relationships require negotiating authenticity against the fear of causing harm to loved ones through societal rejection.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Two-spirit and indigenous gender traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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