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Scenario

When elder care threatens marital stability

My grandmother is dying and wants to live with us but my wife says it will ruin our marriage and I'm torn between them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Competing loyalties to different family members are forcing an impossible choice between honoring the past and protecting the future.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian role identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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