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When elder care threatens marital stability

My grandmother is dying and wants to live with us but my wife says it will ruin our marriage and I'm torn between them.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Competing loyalties to different family members are forcing an impossible choice between honoring the past and protecting the future.

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