My husband and I both work full-time but I still do ninety percent of the housework and childcare, and when I bring it up he says I'm better at it than he is.
More people experience this than they realize.
The attribution of natural ability to socially assigned roles allows inequitable arrangements to persist while appearing voluntary and logical.
“Where Are You with Fairness — what every civilization concluded?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.