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Scenario

When sexuality questions emerge within existing commitments

My husband of fifteen years found my dating app messages with women and I do not know if I am gay, bisexual, or just desperately unhappy in my marriage.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The discovery of suppressed desires forces a reckoning with constructed identities and chosen obligations.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Gay and lesbian identity across cultures?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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