LibraryScenariosWhen sexuality questions emerge within existing commitments
Scenario

When sexuality questions emerge within existing commitments

My husband of fifteen years found my dating app messages with women and I do not know if I am gay, bisexual, or just desperately unhappy in my marriage.

Juana
Online
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The discovery of suppressed desires forces a reckoning with constructed identities and chosen obligations.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Gay and lesbian identity across cultures?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.