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How in-laws reduce you to your ethnicity

My husband's family still introduces me as 'the Korean one' after fifteen years of marriage, and I don't know how to address it without causing drama.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're being persistently othered by people who should see you as family, creating chronic belonging wounds.

Ideas that help explain it
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