My kothi partner wants us to move in together but I am terrified of what my neighbors will say about two feminine men living alone.
More people experience this than they realize.
The desire for intimate partnership confronts the reality of social surveillance and potential violence.
“Where Are You with South Asian gender diversity — hijra and kothi?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.