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When boundary-setting feels like cruelty to those who shaped you

My mom guilt-trips me every time I set a boundary and I can't tell if she's manipulative or if I'm genuinely being selfish.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Healthy separation from unhealthy dynamics often feels like betrayal to those who created them.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined moral life?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.