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When parents give mixed messages about achievement

My mom tells everyone how proud she is of my success but when we're alone she says I've gotten 'too big for my britches.'

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Conflicting parental responses to success create confusion about whether growth is celebrated or punished.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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