My mother expects me to call her every day and visit twice a week but I'm 32 with my own family and I feel suffocated but also guilty for wanting space.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're struggling to individuate while honoring legitimate care responsibilities, caught between authentic selfhood and relational duty.
“Where Are You with Confucian role identity?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.