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Scenario

When you discover your sibling isn't who you thought they were

My older sister has always been my role model but I just found out she's been lying to the family about her job and I don't know how to process that she's not who I thought she was.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Learning that an idealized family member has been deceptive can shatter not only your image of them but your understanding of yourself.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sibling identity dynamics?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.