My older sister has always been my role model but I just found out she's been lying to the family about her job and I don't know how to process that she's not who I thought she was.
More people experience this than they realize.
Learning that an idealized family member has been deceptive can shatter not only your image of them but your understanding of yourself.
“Where Are You with Sibling identity dynamics?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.