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Scenario

How families practice acceptance through selective silence

My parents say they accept me being gay but they never ask about my relationships and change the subject when I mention my girlfriend and I'm tired of feeling invisible in my own family.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Conditional tolerance that requires invisibility is not acceptance but a form of erasure disguised as peace.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Queer identity as political and personal?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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