Periagoge
Scenario

When loved ones adopt your heritage language

My partner learned my language to talk to my family but hearing them speak it feels like cultural appropriation even though I asked for this.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Well-intentioned linguistic bridge-building can trigger unexpected feelings of cultural ownership and boundary violation.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Language and identity — what your first language holds?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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