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Scenario

When Your Partner's Transition Changes Your Sexual Compatibility

My partner transitioned and I still love them but I'm realizing I'm not attracted to their gender identity and I feel guilty for something that feels beyond my control.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love and attraction operate on different frequencies, creating painful conflicts between emotional commitment and physical desire.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexual orientation as identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.