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When Your Partner's Transition Changes Your Sexual Compatibility

My partner transitioned and I still love them but I'm realizing I'm not attracted to their gender identity and I feel guilty for something that feels beyond my control.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love and attraction operate on different frequencies, creating painful conflicts between emotional commitment and physical desire.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexual orientation as identity?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.