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Scenario

When your partner wants a future you cannot envision

My partner wants to get married and keeps asking about kids and I cannot figure out how to tell them that the life they are planning feels like a prison to me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gap between societal relationship scripts and aromantic reality creates impossible conversations about futures that feel fundamentally misaligned.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Asexual and aromantic identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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