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Scenario

Why family nicknames can feel dismissive

My partner's family calls me by a pet name that infantilizes me, and when I asked them to stop, they said I was being too sensitive.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The power dynamics embedded in naming reveal how affection can become a form of control that diminishes adult agency.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Name and identity across cultures?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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