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Why family nicknames can feel dismissive

My partner's family calls me by a pet name that infantilizes me, and when I asked them to stop, they said I was being too sensitive.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The power dynamics embedded in naming reveal how affection can become a form of control that diminishes adult agency.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Name and identity across cultures?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.