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When helping someone becomes self-destructive

My roommate has not paid rent in three months because she lost her job and I am covering it but I am going into debt and she is not actively looking for work.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

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You are learning the difference between generosity and self-sacrifice when boundaries feel cruel.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Moral courage in everyday life?”

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