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When your partner blames you for your child's identity

My teenage daughter came out as pan and my husband thinks it's my fault for 'confusing her' by talking about my own bisexuality.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Being scapegoated for your child's authentic self-expression reveals how your own identity is still seen as deviant rather than natural.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.