My teenage daughter is dating someone I think is wrong for her, and I can't tell if my concerns are legitimate or just my inability to let her grow up.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love and fear are so intertwined that you can't separate genuine concern from your own difficulty accepting your child's independence.
“Where Are You with Confucian benevolence and social harmony?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.