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Scenario

When your child comes out and you struggle with pronouns

My teenager came out as non-binary and asked me to use they/them pronouns and I keep messing it up even though I'm trying, and I can see the hurt in their eyes every time I say the wrong thing.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent grapples with the gap between intention and practice while learning to honor their child's authentic identity.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Gender identity — full spectrum?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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