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Scenario

How to co-parent when you disagree about gender identity

My teenager uses they/them pronouns and my ex-husband says I'm confusing the kids by 'going along with it.'

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Children become battlegrounds when parents cannot agree on the nature of identity itself.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Non-binary and genderqueer identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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