My therapist keeps asking what I want now, but I spent thirty years wanting what we wanted and I have no idea who 'I' am.
More people experience this than they realize.
Long-term partnership can subsume individual desire so completely that recovering personal agency requires rebuilding from scratch.
“Where Are You with Widowed identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.