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When your partner claims colorblindness but perpetuates harm

My white boyfriend says he does not see color but then makes jokes about my accent when we are with his friends.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love becomes complicated when acceptance requires the erasure of essential parts of identity.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Immigration and identity?”

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