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When parenting styles reflect generational trauma

My wife wants me to discipline our kids more strictly like my father did but I hated how that felt and want to be different.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're trying to break cycles while respecting your partner's values, navigating between healing and tradition.

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