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When public reconciliation demands private healing

The commission wants me to forgive publicly but I'm not ready and I feel like I'm failing at being a good victim.

Juana
Online
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

External pressure to perform forgiveness conflicts with authentic emotional processing of harm.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Truth and reconciliation commissions?”

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