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When adult siblings get stuck planning the perfect family gathering

My adult siblings and I want to organize a family reunion but we've been planning it for two years because we keep trying to find the perfect time and place that works for everyone's schedules, budgets, and preferences. Every family gathering becomes a discussion about the reunion we're still planning, and I think we're missing actual time together while chasing this perfect event that may never happen.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pursuit of an ideal reunion is preventing real connection and consuming the family energy it was meant to celebrate.

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