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When maintaining longtime friendships competes with curated social media presence

My college friends and I keep making plans in our group chat but then half of us cancel at the last minute and post about other social activities the same day and I think we're all afraid of admitting that maintaining these friendships takes actual effort that competing with our online lives for attention.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The work of sustaining real relationships cannot compete with the ease of performing social connection for a wider audience.

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“Where Are You with Social media and loneliness?”

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