My family always talks about learning from Dad's mistakes with money and communication, but we're all still tiptoeing around him the exact same way Mom did, just with different excuses now. We've become experts at analyzing the dysfunction but somehow we're all still playing our old roles in it, and I'm not sure if our family therapy insights are actually changing anything or just making us feel more sophisticated about being stuck.
More people experience this than they realize.
The family that becomes fluent in therapeutic language can mistake insight for transformation while unconsciously preserving familiar dynamics.
“Where Are You with Letting the past hold you vs. learning from it?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.