My family has this elaborate shared calendar system that was supposed to help us coordinate but now it feels like a surveillance system where every free moment gets claimed by someone else's idea of what we should be doing together. I miss having time that belongs to no one.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your attempt to organize family time has paradoxically eliminated the possibility of unstructured, unclaimed time.
“Where Are You with The examined calendar — whose time is it??”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.