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When families avoid discussing the obvious elephant in the room

My family has this unspoken agreement that we don't talk about dad's drinking but it affects every gathering and I think we're all tiptoeing around it in ways that are making us more distant from each other.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The group maintains surface peace by collectively ignoring what everyone knows, creating a shared burden that separates rather than connects.

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